That do we tell a training for parents to our children? Secrets of motivation 2.

On a training you learn:

• What is behind unwillingness to study.
• Where to take energy for achievement of results in study.
• How to continue to move forward, when there is no positive results.
• What to do with unsuccessful experience.
• How to meet lacks in knowledge with the smallest efforts.
• How to increase the level of claims concerning study and other kinds of activity.

You never thought why poor students do not become excellent students, or at least drummers even if to the two they rolled down quite recently?

Why they roll down "the inclined plane, and it is necessary to climb back a steep slope, with constant risk to fly back?

Those parents who had to face this problem, know firsthand as difficult, and for some it is almost impossible to return the child to normal progress. And almost all parents face such problem at a certain age of the children.

The child begins to slide with the certain set speed. Who sets it? The child. Give acceleration, without noticing that, sometimes parents, happens that teachers. And further already and speed it is not necessary to set. The child himself loses interest in results and is sure that it is the only possible option.

We communicate every day with children, we instill in them confidence or we destroy their positive ideas of ourselves. We give strength to move forward or we take away them.

Statements of the child are familiar to you:

"For what to study me? I to work at once I will go"

"In life these objects will definitely not be necessary for me!"

"I will definitely not hand over a tank, so why now to suffer?".

So the child tells you "I cannot correct anything. It is impossible to me and it will never turn out"

We long and on shelves display to the child for what it is necessary to study as all his life will depend on it. Mind he understands everything and even wants, "too mind" to correct everything and to study well here only there is no energy on it at all. And the first failure forces to lower hands. The American psychologist Martin Seligman opened this state in 1974 and called it "the learned helplessness". At the learned helplessness of people to stanivitsya by inert bezinitsiativny and it is sure that nothing depends on its actions.

Further the child can make attempts of search of in other spheres. Well if this communication, sport, hobby. The worst option of leaving from a solution alcohol, drugs, the informal organizations. If the child does not receive confirmation of the importance and success of the house and at school he will surely look for the sphere and the place where he will be able to prove himself and others the exclusiveness.

But it is possible to bring the child out of this condition of helplessness after all. Experience shows that the situation can cardinally begin to change within several weeks. Naturally with assistance of parents and the expert.

Academic year began. It is important to support the child from first months of study. Those who badly handed over or fail examinations at the end of the last academic year and sessions are in risk group. That who should take examinations this year have an opportunity to get necessary support and to increase results.

For a start think of the fact that you speak to the child or someone the friend at at his presence about it. And as it can affect result. Often phrases which parents understand as motivators achieve the opposite objectives.

And in details to analyse a situation and to take the first steps to its change I invite persons interested to a training:

"What do we tell to our children? How it influences their progress?"

It is not information from the "30 phrases which cannot be spoken to your children" series. We will in details sort concrete phrases which are told by our participants to the children in numerous parameters. We use developments of the outstanding psychologists working in this direction. You will not only know what cannot be spoken, but also will understand why, and, above all will know what should be spoken with guarantee to help the child to achieve result.

To whom this training is useful:

• To parents. It is sure that parents will gather a lot of useful to the solution of the daily problems.
• That who already faced a problem of bad progress. On a training ways of its solution will be proposed.
• For those participants whose children do not attend school yet or did not face bad progress materials of a training will be useful to prevention of a problem and to achievement of the greatest possible results by children.

We work, as always, in small group (no more than 15 people).

Join!!!

The training will take place on November 25 with 10 - 00 till 13-30

Training cost:

at payment to 18.11.17 - 200 of lei

at an olata after 18.11.17 - 250 of lei